Why won't he sleep all night?
Why will he sleep in my arms but as soon as I put him down in his bed he wakes up?
I know I just asked a bunch of questions, but they are rhetorical. I have/am trying all kinds of things to make the sleep situation better but they haven't worked. We have gone through various times off and on through his 8 months where he has slept through the night & napped during the day, but those times have never lasted more than a week.
Don't tell me to just put him down and let him cry.
1. If my son is put down in his crib and is not asleep, he doesn't just lay there and cry, he crawls or pulls himself into a stand - often falling down and banging his head on the crib slats.
2. Why is it o.k. to ignore his need for comfort in this situation but not in others.
3. I won't be able to ignore his cries for long enough to do this, so there doesn't seem to be a point in starting.
4. For me it feels selfish to do this.
5. It doesn't always work, and doesn't always work in 3 nights as the trainers would have you believe. (I have read other's blogs where they have gone months and their baby is still crying and not putting themselves to sleep.)